The sun was setting on a cool autumn afternoon, as we gathered to celebrate Daughter’s Day. Emily, was running around with a playful energy as Liz sat beside me, her eyes following Emily as she played.
“Bob,” Liz said, “can we talk for a minute? There’s something that’s been on my mind lately.”
“Of course,” I replied, sensing that this was about more than just the usual catch-up.
“I’ve been thinking about my career. I’ve got a stable job, and it’s been good for the family, but… I just want to do something new. Something different. Maybe even take a break from the corporate life and try to build something of my own.”
“That sounds exciting,” I said, “but you look a bit hesitant. What’s holding you back?”
She shook her head, “It’s risky, right? I mean, I have two kids. Emily’s only just started school. What will people think? I don’t want to look irresponsible. And at this stage in life, isn’t it a little late to be switching gears like this?”
“Liz, you’ve built a successful career, you’ve raised amazing kids, and you’ve done it all with grace. But I think this isn’t about age or what people think. It’s about what you want for yourself and how you can make it happen without losing the stability you’ve worked so hard for.”
She smiled slightly, “I want to take the leap, but it’s scary. What if it doesn’t work out?”
“It’s natural to feel that way,” I said, “but the important thing is to approach this change with a calculated mindset. You don’t need to throw everything away to chase a new dream. Start small—work on your ideas while still keeping your job. Do your research, test the waters, and when you feel like it’s right, you’ll know when to take the next step. It’s not about rushing into something; it’s about giving yourself the space to grow into it.”
Liz leaned back in her chair, looking more relaxed. “I guess you’re right. It doesn’t have to be an all-or-nothing decision. I can take my time, figure it out, and when the time’s right, I’ll know.”
“Exactly,” I said, smiling. “This isn’t a race, Liz. It’s your life, your journey. You can take it at your own pace. And remember, it’s not about what people think—it’s about what feels right for you.”
As Emily ran over to us, showing off a drawing she’d made, Liz smiled warmly. The tension in her face had melted away. “Thanks, Bob,” she said, “I needed that.”
We sat there, watching Emily play as I wondered about how for Liz, it wasn’t about abandoning everything she’d built—it was about giving herself permission to explore what was next, without fear of judgment or failure. Yes, risks are part of the process, but they don’t have to be overwhelming. Start small, plan thoughtfully, and move forward when you’re ready. The key is to listen to yourself—not the voices of doubt, but the ones that inspire growth.
