Family is God given. According to calculations only known to God Almighty, He had decided upon the place you would be born and the family you will be born into.

There was not much choice in that for you. It was pre-decided. And it is a good thing. Family views at every birth as a blessing and gives its nurturing without any selfless intent.

In such a scenario, an individual grows up to be a man or woman of values and morals.

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Then, the age hits adolescence and then there comes a need in the individual to fly away from the nest and test their own boundaries.

In such an adventure, family is not at hand, but the morals and confidence guide the individual. But still, given the adventurous age and experiences to be faced, there needs to be an emotional and at times, a soulful caretaker standby.

At such moments to come to their aid, God created friends. These friends, we can choose. They are not blood-related, but would behave as much or more. This is the family that you get when you are away from your family.

And then there comes a point in life, when we can’t talk to our conscience for long about ourselves. We would like to be ourselves with someone else too. And that person is the soul mate. God created love just for that.

And to take that commitment to its logical flourish, one gets married. This partner for life acts as the emotional anchor, good friend and family all combined into one.

And then both included produce another beautiful part of your soul and that is your child.

Romance is just that. It is everything. Not many consider such a progress in life in such terms. Maybe if we do that, we will respect all the relationships mentioned above.