With Seth and Megan giving themselves another shot at renewing their old connections, I found it strange that I was so tongue-tied and awkward when I met my own ex on the road a month back. I guess I couldn’t handle the situation with the maturity that Megan has or the calmness of a Seth. I read the comments that you guys sent, telling me that it was okay to be friends with your ex. But I feel like this time it’s different. It’s tying up those bonds that you untied yourself, willingly.

I was thinking about going back to someone and asking that person to start it all over again. It certainly requires a lot of courage and, if I am not wrong, a sort of ‘selective memory loss’. What I mean is, if you think of the reasons you broke off, and let it grow on you, you’ll never be able to renew yourself again. You have to push those sordid events and images into the ‘forgotten’ zone of your brain and make new impressions and perceptions. Only then can you float a fresh relationship with your ex. What say you?